Playboy Part 2

According to my previous article with the tittle “playboy”, i think some people may think that it was too judgemental and making the playboy looks like a suspected with no right thing in them, so this article, playboy part 2 would be the counter balance for that previous article. This time, i will try to analyze from the playboy side itself. A movie made me realized on something...so, here we go---

Firstly, i disclaim here, ya..playboy here means that playboy and also playgirl

I watched a movie “500 days of summer” and what i got from that movie? I think i’ll just go to the point. So this is the case of the girl as a playgirl.. a girl name Summer says to Tom that she doesn't wanna have a boyfriend, because she doesn't wanna commit to anyone, doesn't wanna be in the relationship and get the pressure, and so on. Actually Summer already had this weird relation with the other boys before. But at the end of the day, Summer just leaves Tom like crap, with no explanation, and suddenly she becomes another man’s wife...weird right? So here’s the correlation with the playboy.

In that movie, at the end when they meet again as Summmer already becomes someone’s wife, summer said to the tom. The point is, when Tom asks, on why she left him like crap, she said that she doesn't wanna be someone else’s girlfriend, then now she becomes someone’s else’s wife..did she lie all the time to tom?

And Summer answers, actually its just her doesn't know anything. She just doesn't feel something in Tom that she suddenly gets in her husband then. She says she just doesn't know it, and her husband is the one who makes her realize that however she needs to have a commitment with someone, thus she feels something different in that guy that she never felt with tom in their long enough relationship.

I guess, we, in seeing the playboy, should take that point. We cant blame them on everything, because the possibilities are there. How if they feel like Summer? They just don't know what they’re doing, they just don't get that match feeling with the girls they’ve been dating, but i guess, someday they will meet the right person, and actually not becoming the playboy again.

My point is that, especially for the victims of playboys, we cant put ourselves like we’re the most suffering side as a victim. Sometimes, its also not their fault, they just are heartless sometimes in respecting our feeling, because they even are still looking for that right person. But maybe, for playboys and playgirls who may read this, if you don't feel that match feeling in your lover, please don't fake your words. Don't exaggerate or overacting in expressing your feeling. If what you feel is only a flat feeling, is only the feeling that you wanna own them but you don't feel something special, please tell them the truth! No matter how hurting this might be, but i guess, the truth will always be the right way, right solution. Because please, remember, your partner, your lover, and your exes are humans, they have feeling, and maybe you haven't felt it, but FYI being brokenhearted is so killing, is so frustrating, even some people think its better for them to die rather than feeling that brokenhearted feeling..please respect other people..and for the victim, please also analyze your mistake, and don't put the full blame on them because everything happens for a reason right?

Well, no hate ya guys much love for you all !!

anyway, sorry for the bad spellings ya, im the miss typo, anyway -_-